First off, I know this is way too forward- But I’m just going to put this out there- I’m hearing WAY too often of couples getting divorced. We’ve been close too, we’re all human and make mistakes.
Show grace to your spouse.
My advice to you is do what you have to do to get through and heal whatever the problem is. Communicate about it.
Think (when you’re not upset) about the long term picture, is this what’s best? Is whatever you’re upset about something that is really worth shaking your precious children’s lives over, and your own precious life?
We all know we can’t change our spouses, but if YOU change, would it help the situation?
If so, do it. You’re worth it, your kids are worth it, and so is your spouse.