We all have our reasons why we attend church, or don’t. Sometimes I struggle hard with not wanting to attend and be fully present there; other times I don’t struggle at all, I just get in the van and go. This is just a random post, folks. I do have some deep feelings about church, religion, and God, and I’d love to have a real-life conversation about those things with you if you ever want to.
Just please don’t get your undies in a bunch over this one, it’s just for fun, k?
Here’s why church matters to me:
1. It’s a place to learn LIFE FOCUS.
You may think this is weird, but I’m just going to say it anyway: it’s not a place to bring forth all that you already know and try to impress others with your Bible knowledge. That’s what I thought church was about before we started regularly attending. Unfortunately, other Christian friends made me think there was an underlying contest about Bible facts, fashion, and how well you can discipline your children in the pews without making a scene.
For me, church is much like college was. It’s a place to learn, take notes, and try to better myself through what I’m being taught. If we learn more about Jesus, we can learn to be more like Jesus. The more we ARE like Him, the more focused and better our lives become.
2. You meet people.
As a stay-at-home mom who was new to town, I didn’t know anyone. I knew like only a handful of adults, but didn’t know them well. Church was the place for me to get to know people.
You might wonder why meeting new people is so important to me. I’m learning that my quality of life is greatly increased through the connections I make. You never know when you’ll be able to help someone, or when you’ll need their help. The more connections you have, the bigger your help circle becomes.
3. It’s FUN.
Yes, it really is. We have weekly meals, game nights, potlucks, STOP HUNGER food packing days, and other special events that all increase the fun factor at church. The things I really think are fun though are the little things: the conversations in the halls, laughs over coffee hour, and watching the kids sing.
4. A Safe Space to Reset.
Church can be a place to pause, breathe, and realign your heart and mind. Life gets messy, kids are loud, work is stressful—but stepping into a place of worship can help you hit the “refresh button” for the week.
5. Kids Learn, Too.
Even if your kids aren’t old enough to sit through the sermon, they’re watching, listening, and learning community, values, and worship. Those small moments—singing songs, waving at friends, or helping with projects—lay the foundation for their faith.
6. Opportunities to Serve.
Church isn’t just a place to attend—it’s a place to contribute. Helping others, even in small ways, can bring a sense of purpose and fulfillment that you won’t find just anywhere.
7. Imperfect People, Perfect Grace.
No one is perfect—and that’s okay. Church is full of people learning, growing, and failing right alongside you. Being part of a community where grace is freely given reminds us that we’re all in this together.
Life Focus – Community – Fun – Grace
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