When Good Things Are Ahead: Choosing Faith Over Fear

I made myself a Gold Hot Chocolate (my splurge treat because it’s healthy enough & doesn’t spike my blood sugar), then I took some time for silent reflection.

A few times over the last week I have found myself getting excited about all this year, 2026, might have to offer.

Carter’s graduation 🎉, my 40th 🎁, Chad and I’s 20th wedding anniversary💍, Graycie getting her permit 🚗, etc. It all sounds SO GOOD and I’m crazy excited for these things.

Then, I feel myself pull back. I force myself to stop thinking of what might be, stop making plans and lists. ‘Just stay present’ I tell myself.

I have lived the majority of my life “annoyingly optimistic”, as someone once told me (it’s fine, after I googled it, I took it as a compliment).

I love life deeply. I #celebrateabsolutelyeverything.

Throughout my childhood and adult years, I’ve watched my mom and had conversations with her about how, at times, she has felt afraid when things are going well, because something might go wrong.

She lost her daddy suddenly as a little girl and I’ve learned through losing my nephew that the feelings of grief and trauma can do that- make you feel guilty or cautious about enjoying life too much.

The house is dark and quiet. I actually kind of hate when it’s quiet, because occasionally my brain can bring up regrets and fears. BUT, my friends, God is bigger than all of it. I know he doesn’t want me, or you, to live afraid of what might come next. Walk with confidence that God is with you through it all. He knows your heart. He cares.

Do not be afraid to look forward to this year and all the amazing things it has to offer.

2 Timothy 1:7
“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.”

John 14:27
“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

Isaiah 41:10
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand

Psalm 56:3-4
“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise-in God I trust and am not afraid. What can mere mortals do to me