A Slightly Better Wife is not what I am, but what I strive to be. Marriage is a journey, and each day gives us new opportunities to grow, serve, and love our husbands in ways that honor God. This week, I’ve been focusing on a few simple practices that help me work toward being a better wife:
1. Cultivating intimacy within marriage.
Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, and intimacy is a part of that gift. I’m learning to be attentive and receptive to my husband’s needs, and even to initiate intimacy when it feels right. It’s not about duty; it’s about connection, closeness, and showing love in a way that strengthens our bond. Proverbs 5:18-19 reminds us to rejoice in the wife of our youth and delight in the love within marriage. Keeping that perspective has made intimacy feel abundant and joyful, not stressful.
2. Preparing meals and snacks with care.
A little planning goes a long way in keeping our home running smoothly. I’ve been using my planner to map out meals and snacks for the week. When our family knows what to expect, mealtime is calmer, and even little ones (and moms!) stay happier. Proverbs 31:15 tells us the virtuous woman provides food for her household.
3. Giving him my full attention.
I’ve realized how much it matters to simply put my phone down and look up when my husband is speaking. Ephesians 5:21 encourages us to be kind and considerate, listening with a gentle heart. It’s amazing how much connection grows when we really see and hear each other.
4. Guarding my words and attitude.
I’m trying to avoid repeating complaints and instead focus on gratitude and constructive conversation. Philippians 4:8 reminds us to think on things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and praiseworthy. Letting go of small irritations and choosing my words carefully has created more peace in our home.
5. Praying for him intentionally.
Prayer is powerful, and praying for my husband is one of the most meaningful ways I can serve him. I’m learning to pray specifically for his needs, his heart, and his walk with God, trusting that the Lord works in ways we cannot always see. James 5:16 reminds us of the power of righteous prayer, it truly can bring healing, encouragement, and strength.
These little practices aren’t perfect, but they’re helping me grow. Marriage is a journey of love, patience, and grace, and every small step counts.
What are some ways you’re striving to grow as a wife and bless your marriage?
Thanks for sharing. One thing I'm trying to do to be a better wife, instead of nagging about what he hasn't gotten around to yet, thank him for what he has done.